The Search Is On

When a problem or situation arises about anything in life, many people spend countless hours trying to find the answers to solve their mishaps on their own. This leads to even more frustration after running into multiple dead ends and non relevant information. At the end of the day, people ask themselves "why bother?" or tell themselves to just give up as there is nothing out there that could possible turn a situation around.

I have definitely been that person in the past, trying to solve life's greatest mysteries on my own. During these times, I have found myself to be more frustrated and pissed off then I originally was with just the problem at hand. As humans we run into problems, tough problems throughout our lives that we cannot control. These problems could be almost anything, and they are just as big or as little as you make them out to be. The few problems and situations that I have gone through that had made my life miserable during the solidifying process were definitely learning experiences. Although I did not enjoy these situations, I am happy that I went through them and was able to learn valuable lessons of what to do and what not to do in the future. That was then, this is me now.

My previous post talked about holding a positive image. I recently went through a situation that has taught me once again one of life's huge lessons. The difference in the way that I have handled the situation compared to what I would have done if my mindset had not changed are completely on different ends of the spectrum. Being a person that has re-found my way in my beliefs in God and trusting in him to guide me through this situation has definitely made a difference. Although for others, this financial scare that I am going through might bring them down and change their emotions drastically, but I for one have not let this affect my life. I just gave it to God, putting my trust in him to get me through this. With this, I have been a more positive and uplifting individual, not allowing this stressful situation get to me. This has made my life much better, actually, I take that back, God has made my life much better. All I know is, through him, I can do all things, but I just need to keep my focus on him and continue to trust in him and not let my emotions go before. Being positive allows me to impact the lives of others, as people want to be around positive people, life is much more enjoyable that way.

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Religious or not, be positive. No matter how down you feel or how stressed out you may be, do not let your problems or situations effect your emotions or attitude as it will not only effect you, but effect the lives of others around you. Just remember that things happen for a reason, learn from your mistakes and work to bettering your life. Things will ALWAYS get better, even though you may feel that they wont.

"Every day may not be good, but there's something good in every day. " - Unknown

My Life, My Story,

- Brice